Sunday, October 30, 2011

QUOTES OF THE WEEK


"I'm nobody! Who are you?/Are you nobody, too?/Then there's a pair of us--don't tell!/They'd banish us, you know./How dreary to be somebody!/How public, like a frog/To tell your name the livelong day/To an admiring bog!" 


- Emily Dickinson


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“As human beings, our greatness lies not so much in being able to remake the world… as in being able to remake ourselves.”
-Mahatma Gandhi
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"When it's dark out, you can see the stars"
-Awesome Coe Staff Member


  Have a good week!
-Coe Writing Center

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

A Marvelous Night



                You know that a night was well spent when you spend part of it in the ER. Not me, thankfully, but a friend I made. You see, this past Saturday I decided to attend the first Rug cutters pub dance of the year, which was, may I say, the high light of my first quarter here at Coe. For starters, people actually asked other people to dance, which was a novel feeling especially for me. On top of that, when I wasn’t dancing, I was jamming out with some girls to one side of the dance floor where we salsa-ed, chacha-ed or Charleston-ed by ourselves. And there was food. Lots of delicious food, including cookies and chips.
               
               However, that’s not the bulk of this story. The bulk of this story comes from a friend of Kelci’s and mine. His name is Andrew and he’s from Cornell in Mount Vernon. Now, a bunch of guys from Cornell drove to Coe to join us in our dancing, and Andrew was one of them. May I just say that he and I danced the coolest rendition of “Don’t Stop Believin’” that this world will ever see? In any case, he was nagging on Kelci for not dancing well, and they decided they should have a worm competition. You know that dance move where the person convulses on the floor repeatedly? Yeah, that one.  Things were going great.  Kelci started off and twitched beautifully, earning a few snide looks and a couple pity laughs.  Andrew went out to show off, but almost as soon as he was on the floor he was off it.  Unfortunately for our new friend Andrew, there was somehow a rock on the dance floor which split his chin wide open, and resulted in the three of us trooping over to the ER at Saint Luke’s for him to get stitches.
               
              Having said that, we were the happiest people in the ER. Dancing was a ton of fun and we told each other funny stories whilst waiting to be called up. Andrew took the stitches in stride, which is more than I would do, and after we impressed the nurses at Saint Luke’s by not being intoxicated in the slightest, we returned back to Coe.  We weren’t sure what to do as it was pretty late and we didn’t want to drive Andrew home, so we ended up sitting on the floor and drinking tea!   At the startlingly late hour of 2:30 a.m., I returned to my room to catch a few hours of sleep.
               
And that, for the record, was one of the best evenings at Coe I’ve had so far. 


  - Julia Pillard (and Kelci de Haas)

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Hey friends!

Here's what blogging team did over fall break:

- "Cryztal" says: I got kidnapped and got my nails did! (for the first time!)

- "Shanifa" says: I went hiking and got my Halloween costume done! (simultaneously?)

- "Bill" says: I went to Meryl Streep's favorite pizzeria! (awesome!)

- "Heath-her" says: I fell asleep on an old guy on the plane! (I hope she didn't drool!)

- Julia says: I ate all organic eggs Benedict... BY ACCIDENT! (it was good though)

And we still managed to write our Moodle posts on time! Yay homework!

We hope you had a great fall break too! Stop by the Writing Center and tell us what you did over fall break!

  - The Blogging Team ;)

Friday, October 7, 2011

Quotes Of The Week!

In a floor kitchen, Sunday night at 8 PM...
Anonymous
“How many quarts are in a gallon?”

Writing Center Employee
“Four”

Anonymous
“No.. Really?”

Writing Center Employee
“Yeah, think, a quart like a quarter...”

Anonymous
“I don’t get it...Sorry...”

...Wow

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in a floor lounge, Saturday Night (technically Sunday morning) at 2 AM...
Drunk girl (walking in randomly)
“Hey have you seen (unintelligible blurb)”

Sober people (sitting innocently)
“Nope, sorry”

Drunk Girl
“Oh. I see how it is. you’re those bitches from ill-a-noise...”

Sober People (who are not , in fact, from Illinois)
“do you need help getting to your room?

Drunk Girl
“NO! You’re just gonna take me to Ill-a-noise...”

...Ummm...

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At the “Be like a kid again night” (run by Student Activities Committee), Friday night at 11:30 PM

Friend 1
“I’m gonna go ape-shit with these coloring pages”

Friend 2
I’m gonna go more ape-shit with my coloring pages!!”

Student Activities Committee member
“(walks by silently)”

***
In class
Professor
“It’s better to give offense than to take offense”

Truth!


  - The ears of Coe Writing Center

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Poetry


I am the reflector
on the highway
leading you away
from where you want to be.
My brothers and sisters
join hands along I-20.
Like constellations or biplanes
we spell out your fate
on gravel
baked by sun
and smiles you tossed us
from your rear view mirror.
Go ahead
turn the dial up two notches
or four.
Michele Norris and Robert Siegel consider
among things accidental glances
between passengers.
See the gum you tossed
when the taste of peppermint
disappeared from your tongue?
Your eyes
that could no longer follow
the mile makers
keeping time to the grooves
your tires tattooed across my back.
The reflection of a toddler
flinging goldfish and juice boxes
at the back of his mother’s head
whispering secrets
into the upholstery with colored crayons.
As you pass
take the time to read the notes
he leaves for you
in drool
expertly smeared across
windows his mother cleaned
at a rest stop
two exits back.
I’ve befriended the dial you grasp too tightly
from 92.9 to 106.7 in three seconds flat.
She speaks through country ballads
and late night talk shows.
Careful she’s coming unscrewed.
Soon you’ll replace her
like the map you shoved in the glove box
before stopping to ask for directions.
If you took the time to read
the twisted lines
you would see
that you’re folding my uncle
backward on his spine
his hair thinning from the edges
you’ve torn in frustration
after attempting to speak with him
in the dark or without your glasses.
He sees less of you now.
That box that sits on the dash
turn left ahead.
When you stopped for gas at exit fifty five
I mingled with the loose change
beneath your seat.
They listen for the sound
of your wallet as you take it
from the pocket of your jeans
the sound a new friend makes
before joining them to dance
among wrappers and crumbs.
Go on and break your twenty.
We’re all for change.


  -Rachel Epperly

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Introductions: Round Two

Hello again!
I never really know how to start these.  As you have probably deduced, these are more introductions for our new blog team!

KATIE SELINGER
Height: 5' 2"
Eye Color: Sea Green
Hair Color: Dark Brown
Class: Sophomore

Katie, a scorpio, can usually be found sitting in the Grantwood Gallery at the library, working on her 13 inch Apple MacBook Pro.  She harnesses her inner love of all things feline during her day to day life.  She likes the Frodo Baggins type, and if you are looking for some date ideas try going out to get strawberry ice cream.  But be warned: She's a black belt!


RACHEL EPPERLY
Height: 5' 8"
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown
Class: Freshman

Rachel is a Gemini, and there's no telling whether she is the evil twin or not!  This monkey lover owns a swanky HP Pavilion and enjoys working on leather couches.  If you were to look in her fridge you would find grape juice, hummus, pickles, and carrots that are probably bad.  Don't let her mild shyness fool you: this girl's got spunk.

Look forward to posts from both of these girls as well as the start of our new segment, Quote of the Week, by Jane Lindemann!



  -Kelci de Haas

Friday, September 30, 2011

Photo of the Week

Our first photo of the week is a stylized highlight of the writing center:



  - Kelci de Haas

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Do you know how autumn comes?


                Do you know how autumn comes? It starts in the wind. The summer breeze grows hard, an edge to it which sweeps down from the north. The smells of burning leaves, of rot and decay, float on the autumn wind, leaving trails of dying summer in their path. The autumn wind freezes straight through jackets and jeans, straight through flesh right down to the bone, to the center of a person, leaving little bits of frost in the marrow of their skeleton.
                As the wind sweeps over the trees, the leaves at the very top begin to turn, their rich green yellowing in the blink of an eye. It travels down, through the emerald, silky green of the tree’s branches. The leaves turn yellow, or orange, or red, or brown, and wither and die, falling from their perch aloft to the ground so far below. They are trampled underfoot, raked into piles in backyards everywhere, jumped in, bagged up, and pressed between the pages of books. They sink into the earth, dying and withering, being eaten by autumn’s quiet chill.
                The air becomes colder, and without the trees keeping the semblance of summer the world begins to turn brown and yellow. Breath curls in steamy swirls through the air. Feet trudge across once green lawns, and people glance furtively at the cloudy sky, waiting for the first snow to fall and declare this winter’s realm. Autumn is the in-between time, a point in the year that is neither warm nor cold, but a sort of limbo, a waiting place.
                Through September into October, that month marked by ghouls and witches, and then into November when we, here in America, celebrate the final harvest with our own fall festival, Thanksgiving. No one looks at it as a harvest festival, but in truth that is what it is. We stuff ourselves with summer’s bounty, reveling in the stuffed turkey, mashed potatoes, overdone carrots, and pumpkin pie. We gather together with friends and family to celebrate a successful summer and to prepare for the long, nighttime season of winter, when the hours of darkness grows stronger than day.
                Do you know how autumn comes? It comes in a whisper, in a glance. It comes like night does, starting slow, and then here before you have a chance to blink. It steals over the world, icy hands grasping at the edges of our perception. And then it’s here, and summer is gone. Another six months, or seven months, or nine months we might have to wait to see the summer sun again.




  - Julia Pillard

Monday, September 26, 2011

Writing Center Staff At Blindspot


Last Friday night, the 23rd, a nearly-full house of Coe Students gathered in Dows to see the open-mic event: Blindspot. Frat boys commentated (ie yelled out) from their section, theatre denizens shamelessly plugged the upcoming play, and audiences roared as a very diverse group of “performers” did their acts. But let’s be honest here: the Writing Center peeps totally stole the show.
Staying true to one of the Writing Center’s most valued tricks--reading aloud--staffers Anna Heglud and Courtney Marti each did their own well-timed and super funny readings of some...well, unconventional stories.
First, Anna Hegland graced the stage, and, to most people’s shock, did a reading of a steamy story in the back of an old Cosmopolitan magazine. Wasting none of the hot details, she both mocked the story (which was, to be honest, pretty nasty) while simultaneously getting laughs from all of her fellow peers. Well done, Anna. Nobody will forget that any time soon.
Later, Courtney Marti stepped up to share an adaptation of Cinderella from her book, Politically Correct Bedtime Stories: Modern Tales For Our Life & Times. The story alone was great, but Courtney took it up a level: like all good story tellers, she did the voices, and everyone who knows Courtney knows that she is terrific at pretty much every imaginable dialect.
So yeah, everyone did great at Blindspot on Friday--great singers, Top 10 Lists, instrumentalists. But we can confidently say that the Writing Center staffers who performed will be remembered for quite some time.


  - Jane Lindemann

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Hey Guys!

It's the start of a new school year and a new blogging team here at the Writing Center.  We are very excited to entertain you with witty wisdom and news about what's happening here, but we thought we should probably introduce ourselves first.  However, we didn't want to overwhelm you with information - so we'll start slow.

Look forward to posts this week from three fabulous people: Jane, Julia, and Kelci!

JANE LINDEMANN
Height: 5' 7.5"
Eye Color: Green
Hair Color: Light Brown
Class: Freshman

Jane is a Leo looking for love.  She logs onto her purple laptop between rehearsals for Twelfth Night, in which she plays Feste.  While she can't pick a major, she is dedicated to her classes almost as much as she is dedicated to coffee.  Her two pots a day will keep you on your toes to entertain her!  However, if you are looking for date ideas, try taking her out to coffee, perhaps with a romantic giraffe ride afterwards.

JULIA PILLARD
Height: 5' 8.5"
Eye Color: Blue
Hair Color: Blonde
Class: Freshman

This Aries from Fort Collins has a fiery personality.  Her Dell laptop (running Vista) allows her to complete homework for her music and writing classes.  She loves long afternoons sitting in her cushioned wicker chair low to the ground, sipping minestrone soup.  Her dream date would be something including owls, perhaps meeting them, petting them, drawing them, or just talking about them!

KELCI DE HAAS
Height: 5' 5"
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Brown (with a blue and green streak!)
Class: Freshman

Kelci's Libra life is the furthest thing from balanced!  She juggles playing sports, theater and writing classes, and hanging out with friends; perhaps watching a movie on her lime green Sony Viao.  She loves both playing and watching football, as well as almost any kind of dessert.  If you want to hang out with Kelci, avoid conflicts with any football games, but especially Green Bay Packers games! 


Tune in next Sunday for another preview and more introductions!


  - Kelci de Haas

Friday, August 12, 2011

Asbestos in the Attic..or Basement

I hold my breath as I walk through the sauna of a stairwell. The asbestos abatement is in full swing in Peterson and somehow holding my breath will prevent the microfilaments from entering my lungs. Reaching the landing I gasp, inhaling all those particles I worked so hard to avoid.

The air conditioning has been shut off, while I imagine a giant vacuum hose outside is sucking the undoubtedly asbestos laden insulation from the interior of the cinder-block walls. Probably this is not how it works. And theoretically speaking, I think we aren’t supposed to be in the building, but nothing stops Dr. Bob from getting down to work in his 329 Peterson office. Not even hazardous silicate minerals.

Upon further investigation of the history and usage of asbestos I have discovered the following primarly on Wikipedia. Coming from the Greek word meaning unquenchable, asbestos in one of six silicate minerals. Used for its tensile strength, fire retardant ability and sound absorption the U.S. asbestos industry began in 1858. Until recently this tricky substance was used in automobiles, to wrap ship pipes, bulletproof vests, cigarette filters, plaster and artificial snow. Even now, it has not been made illegal in the United States, though it is listed amongst hazardous air pollutants.

Unfortunately for Peterson hall, when it was built in the 1960s, asbestos use was in full swing. By the time school begins, Peterson will be in ship shape—but a friendly piece of advice: don’t lick the walls.

- Emily

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

The heat sets in.

It’s my first summer in Iowa, and I imagined a brisk summer like those spent in Seattle as a child-- pulling plums from a tree in the backyard and regretting the decision to wear shorts. Instead, we subsist in what has been dubbed ‘corn growing weather.’ The Iowa City Bank sign illuminates red digits. One, zero, seven. I didn’t think it possible outside the southwest. The humidity knocks you back, down, and rolls you around on the ground.


I run into Liz and Sydney in the writing center. I think we all escape to Peterson to find a little quiet in the nearly-empty basement. With the exception of a few glass research students, our little niche is cool and silent. The coffee supply has dwindled to only decaf, but it doesn’t seem to matter. We complain to one another about the systems migration. F-drives and I-drives don’t work. Or maybe they do. Everyone laments lost progress and class assignments. My honors composition portfolio is gone, but then again, maybe my prose isn’t as good as I recall. The summer is rattling its last few breaths; classes start in a week and a month - Emily

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Watching the books pile up and hankering for a cup of writing center coffee

Dr. Bob’s books for his latest nature-writing course cascade from his mailbox-- the one across from cherry auditorium. Unwrapping book after book, almost exclusively the Best American Science and Nature Writing 2005, I found myself hankering for a pot o’ Joe. Not just any, but the writing center’s own special brew, black. It’s the middle of summer and nothing will cut it. No coffee roasters around or mysterious burlap bags filled with green coffee beans arriving. I can’t help but miss walking into Peterson and being accosted by what smells like hot pencil shavings, knowing that there would be a fresh cup waiting for me downstairs.

- Emily

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Grant Wood Slept Here...

Any self-respecting Cedar Rapidian must possess at least a cursory knowledge of Grant Wood either because of the Marvin Cone connections or the fact that American Gothic is perhaps one of the most recognizable American paintings. So here it is, all you ever needed or even really cared to know about Grant Wood.
The Grant Wood studio is now owned by the Cedar Rapids Museum of Art and is just a short walk from Coe. (Check it out, it's free on Saturday and Sunday). Number 5 Turner Ally, he called it. Wood moved into the former hay-loft of a mortuary carriage house in 1925, because before that had hearses, they had horses! After the advent of cars, the Turner's no longer needed a hay-loft and donated the space. It was in this space that he painted American Gothic and most everything else.
So, go to the studio if you're ever in the neighborhood.

P.S. American Gothic is of Grant Wood's dentist and sister.


Saturday, May 28, 2011

Is it still a writing center if no one is here to conference?

My vote: Yes
So far the writing center and my summer hideaway has been abustle with activity. Between working on the summer newsletter, next years calendar, and cleaning out old faithful (the refrigerator), there is rarely a dull moment. In fact last weeks adventures in the depths of the refrigerator yielded a treasure of miscellaneous foodstuffs. The top five things found the WC fridge:

5. An unopened Rockstar
4. A half-gallon tupperware of canned pears, labeled Tuna.
3. Baked beans and lots of 'em.
2. A pitcher of slightly green iced tea.
1. One full pound of creamed cheese set to expire next month. Not quite sure what I'll do with this fortune just yet...

Happy summer to all you folks and be sure to check out Beth's Baseball [May Term] Blog.
- Emily C.

Friday, May 6, 2011

Second Semester Blog Recap

Well, finals have passed and a new blog team will be taking over for the summer. We hope you've enjoyed the past few months and the weekly posts we've made. The blog is alive once again and we wish it the best of luck in the upcoming months!

- The Blogsters

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Photo of the Week: Publications Are Out!



Good news! The publications are coming out and we are excited to see and read them. Look around Coe for copies of The Pearl, The Coe Review, and Colere.






Monday, May 2, 2011

Reminiscing the Past: Part XII

1929
by Kaylyn Evans

1929, the father is the last to pass on. And rest he shall among the family. The grounds are shaded by cedar and they face a land of opportunity and openness. A new foreign land is where the MalÑžs called home and most likely prospered. The size of the headstone and its detail must have cost much of what they had saved, but it is worth this cost to keep their name out there for a lonely and infrequent passerby to see.

Josef and Frantska now lie with their children by their sides. The MalÑžs are protected by the cedar trees and the dew soaked grass. The calm, warm winds clean them on this beautiful September morning. Their bodies are blanketed by the moist, deep Earth. They are minded by their God they chose to believe in and are guarded by the noble Saints Peter and Paul. Where they lie is separated only by a gravel road from the house of their God.

They rest in the pristine cemetery with a solid, lightly decorated and polished gray monument that stands above their heads where Josef, Frantska and their three children's names are now carved into time. Their native language of Czech adorns the lovely headstones. Frantska, a beloved daughter and mother, is memorialized with a sentence that only a few may translate and understand. I wonder what is said of her. I wonder who decided to leave words just for her. A massive agave has grown next to her headstone, making her blessed by the earth Herself.

However, happiness has not always befallen the MalÑžs. Two were lost far too young. Only days old and they were to be buried within the family plot. They now are among the parents and brother, Lancelot, they never knew. Miloslav and Josef Jr., twins, will always be remembered and loved, even after such a short life. Josef and Frantska had to watch Miloslav be taken after three days of life, and then they had to endure the pain again as Josef Jr. was also taken only a few days after his second half. A passerby, like myself, could not imagine what pain and heartache that would cause; how could two parents survive that? Yet again Josef had to watch as his young son, Lancelot, be taken away too, not long after Frantska, but quite some time after his brothers. Poor, poor Josef! My heart aches for the MalÑžs; how traumatic their life had to have been with so many young graces lost. And poor Josef had to live multiple years with only the headstones that must have cost much of his hard-earned money; these seemingly being the only tangible pieces of them left for him. How did he make it through? Did he throw himself into whatever work that made him most likely prosper in the eyes of business men? But he did not prosper in his life because his Lord took his family away far too soon.

Yet now death does not walk along these rows of heroes, patrons, fathers, mothers, sons, and daughters. New forms of life spring from the earth and prevail in the place of the loved ones who were lost, in the place of the tragedies that many, most likely, felt. Families watch over the quiet and lovely graves. Their family tombstones enlighten us all of those who once lived before us. Sadness does not fall here, but happiness for the lives of those who once brought joy shines through.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Photo of the Week: So Many Books


It seems appropriate that we put a picture of books up on the blog since we are writing this post while in the Writing Center library. There are so many books scattered throughout the WC. In the library there is one shelf that is color coordinated to create a rainbow shelf. Whatever you're looking for, you might be able to find a book about it at the WC.

Monday, April 25, 2011

Reminiscing the Past: Part XI



A String
by Ariana Uding

Carved A dot P dot
Son of Anton and Anna
Surname, no first name

Spots of mud and moss
In the tree’s shade you’ve rested
And will for all days

Close enough to smell
Bright enough to call the sun
Too far for a touch

Lonesome in your rest
Next to you lays mystery
Bones lay next to bones

Surname Pavelka
Aging over tombstone but
Letters left untouched

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Photo of the Week


Photo taken by Haley Welby.

Monday, April 18, 2011

Reminiscing the Past: Part X

Graveyard Writing
by Caroline Burris

How do people choose what goes on their tombstones? Do they sit down with a pen and paper one day and say, “I want an etching of something significant and a list of the relationships I’ve had and the family I’m no longer going to see.” How do people make that choice?

Julia A. Schaeffer. Julia has a rather lively display marking her resting place. Well, as lively as tombstones can get. A short, stout cross bearing her name standing on a pedestal, rosary beads etched into the stone. On the opposite side there are no beads, there is only a train. The surviving relatives: brothers, sisters, parents, one can only assume, have placed some of their own memorials around the grave. Roses, an angel with a faded painting of a garden adorning its robe: all objects with personal significance which mere visitors will never fully understand.

1964-2004. Julia was only 40 when she died. Did she have warning of it? Could she sit down and plan the designs, quotes, and etchings out? Or was it sudden? Was her family left to struggle with the phrases and pictures that would be seen by any and all visitors? Was her family charged with the task of deciding how she would be remembered?

How do people choose what goes on their tombstones? No matter how we choose, the etchings will become weathered and fade away. All we can tell is that someone is here. Name, age, likes, dislikes, none of that will register. We probably won’t even register that there were likes and dislikes or care about the name. All we’ll know is that the symbols someone chose to adorn their resting place with are gone. The choice of what they would be, ultimately, did not matter.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Photo of the Week


This quote can be found on the right hand side of the wall as you walk out of the WC. Just a little flair to the place.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Reminiscing the Past: Part IX


47 Years
by John Thornburg

Only the good die young,
John Woods. You were okay

Saints keep the resting place
a green topography of slopes
and crosses leaned, the cold of graves
lie in rows like trees.

Maybe you were glad
when Emma rejoined you
47 years is a drive, John
I know she told you all about 1969
and Neil Armstrong, World War II
If it was 1900 and I was 20 years old
maybe I wouldn't have this feeling
like there are plastic flowers
on my grave.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Lively Weekend on Campus

This weekend, a variety of performers will light up Coe's campus. In addition to Sean Kingston (7:00 PM, Friday, Eby Gymnasium), Coe's department of theatre arts presents Twilight: Los Angeles, 1992 (8:00 PM Friday and Saturday, Dows Theatre and 2:00 PM Sunday), The Coe Marquis series presents Sharon Isbin (8:00 PM Saturday, Sinclair Auditorium). On a different note, visiting students can view a guest presentation titled “Reading T.S. Eliot: An Introduction to Religion and Literature," featuring Edward Upton of Valparaiso University. (3:00 PM Friday, Hickok Hall Room 205). These are just some of the awesome events available to students and visitors this weekend.

How fitting, considering that it is Admitted Student Weekend, as well as the weekend of the Writing Center Fellowship competition. It can be hoped that all visiting students are served well by these events.

- Ben B '13

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Photo of the Week: Seashells


Spring is here...sort of. The weather is warming up and we can only hope for the summer. Maybe some seashells will bring us some summer luck.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Reminiscing the Past: Part VIII


Mother Is All It Said
by Amber Caylor

I pull my sweater tight around me to prevent the cool morning from sneaking inside. The chill nips at my cheeks and nose, but it’s still early. The sun promises to warm the air around me. At the entrance to the cemetery, the tombstones are large and beautifully crafted, but I pass by them, trekking down the hill to the older part of the cemetery.

The older sections of cemeteries are always my favorite. They are full of lost stories of the people resting in the earth, joined by all those who knew and loved them. Sometimes even the engravings on the stones have been worn away, leaving those resting there nameless to this world.

I try my best to avoid walking on the graves. Many people don’t bother, but I was always taught that it was disrespectful to stand above where someone has permanently been laid to rest. The newer section is easy to get through, with tombstones in clear rows. Once I get to the older part of the cemetery, avoiding them becomes more difficult. They don’t line up to make paths, so I nearly trip weaving through them. Many of these older graves are from the early 1900s, with the names still easily read. I decide to plop down in a stretch of grass.

The cemetery is so peaceful and, strangely, alive. Golden flowers are in bloom, the grass vibrantly green, and I hear cows mooing in the distance. I usually picture cemeteries as dark, creepy, full of shadows and straight out of a horror film. This is not that place. This isn’t a place of death. It’s a place to celebrate life.

I look at the tombstones near me and see a small, flat one that simply says, “MOTHER.” The woman’s name, date of birth and date of death are a mystery. The weather hasn’t worn away the engravings; her loved ones simply chose to memorialize her as Mother, leaving off everything else.

Initially, this lack of name saddens me. Names are so connected with our identities that without them, we don’t know ourselves. This woman lies nameless in the ground, lacking an identity. Perhaps her tombstone is simple because the family didn’t have enough money for something more detailed.

Yet, I probably understand this woman better than if her name had been emblazoned on the stone. I know she was a mother. Every day she loved and cared for her children. I can imagine her tucking them into bed under a warm, heavy quilt and making them pancakes and bacon in the morning. Her family thought of her as such a wonderful mother that they chose to remember her for eternity as mother and nothing else. For her, mother is her identity, not her name.

Today, I attempt to capture a piece of someone’s story. It’s only a minuscule piece of a mother I never knew, but I remembered her. I thought of her. She was not forgotten.


Friday, April 1, 2011

Writing Center Suddenly Abloom with Poetry

On Sunday, March 27th, I opened my email inbox to find an email from Dr. Bob. Much of the subject line was filled with procedural detail headings, but then came the last word, which was followed by an exclamation point. "Poetry!" Speeding through the first two paragraphs of the email, my eyes dived into the third point in Dr. Bob's prose. We were to spend parts of our shifts over the next four days, Monday-Thursday, March 28-31st, writing poetry. We have closed on the poetry collections; the submissions are in, and I hope to give a brief highlight to a pair that caught my eyes. The first is by Alison Polivka, speaking out to us from 9:00 on Monday morning; speaking the true spirit of the morning. It is called Settle.

The perfect cup of coffee eludes me.

There is no coffee at the pump,
nor is there any in the carafe,
and it is too early to even think of the word
decaf.

It takes me five minutes and twenty-three seconds
to make the coffee,
but I need to fill the sugar in the meantime.
There's no milk in the fridge,
so thick, syrupy cream must do.
Someone jacked my mug a week ago,
so one of the twenty-five cent
Goodwill mugs must service.

My sub-par cup of coffee,
cradled between anatomically incorrect sea turtles
and a whale with a lazy eye
will have to do.

Another fun Poem is just titled Poem, by Grant Stevens. It speaks to us from 9pm on Monday.

P is for the Pie I eat.
O is for the Orchid Forms
E is for the Energy I feel.
M is for the moment when
the orchid forms are done
and I eat pie
and am energized.

These and more can be found on the pillar just inside the Writing Center, and there are even more on Moodle that will probably find their way here in the future. This has been an interesting sort of project for consultants, and in my experience, we would enjoy similar projects in the future.

- Ben B. '13